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What does crush mean in dating slang?
Also written: have a crush on, my crush, crushing on, celebrity crush
In short
In dating talk, a crush is a strong but usually short-lived romantic feeling for someone you are not in a relationship with, often kept secret. The word also means the person you feel that way about: "my crush". You "have a crush on" someone, or say you are "crushing on" them. It has nothing to do with the main verb sense of crushing something flat, except that both can feel overwhelming.
The meanings of crush
Dictionaries list two romantic senses: the feeling ("a strong but temporary feeling of liking someone romantically", as Cambridge puts it) and the person (someone you like a lot but are not in a serious relationship with). The verb "to crush on" someone is the informal version.
Separately, "crush it" means to do extremely well, as in "you crushed that interview", which is a different, positive slang use.
How to use it
- "I've had a crush on him since sophomore year and he has no idea."
- "My crush just liked my story. I'm screaming."
- "Who's your celebrity crush?"
- "She's been crushing on the new guy all week."
- "It was just a crush, I got over it."
Crush vs. similar words
| Word | Meaning | Difference |
|---|---|---|
| crush | secret or one-sided liking | usually not acted on yet |
| situationship | undefined romantic relationship | something is already happening |
| in love | deep romantic love | stronger and longer-lasting |
| talking stage | early texting and getting to know each other | both sides know |
Tone
Crush is light and a bit youthful, common in school and among friends, but adults use it too, especially "celebrity crush" or "work crush". It suggests feelings, not a relationship, so telling someone "you're my crush" is a cute way to confess.
FAQ
What does "have a crush on someone" mean?
To have strong romantic feelings for someone you are not dating, often without telling them.
What does "my crush" mean?
The person you have a crush on, the person you secretly like.
Is a crush the same as love?
No. A crush is usually lighter and shorter, more attraction and excitement than deep love.