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Marriage readiness test

Check how ready your relationship is for marriage across five areas counselors focus on: communication, conflict, money, family, and the future you want.

Your answers are scored in this tab. Nothing is uploaded, saved, or sent anywhere.

How well does each statement describe you? Answer as you usually are, not as you would like to be.

  1. We can talk openly about almost anything.

  2. When we argue, we stay respectful.

  3. We have talked honestly about our debts, income and spending.

  4. I get along reasonably well with my partner's family.

  5. We agree on whether and when to have children.

  6. I feel listened to when I share something important.

  7. Our arguments often end with one of us shutting down.

  8. We agree on how to split money and bills.

  9. We have clear boundaries with our families.

  10. We want a similar lifestyle in five years.

  11. I hold back my feelings to avoid upsetting my partner.

  12. We can apologize and repair after a fight.

  13. We have similar saving and spending habits.

  14. Our families often cause tension between us.

  15. We have talked about where we want to live.

  16. We regularly check in about how the relationship is going.

  17. We solve problems as a team instead of blaming each other.

  18. Money is a topic we avoid.

  19. We agree on how much time to spend with relatives.

  20. We support each other's career and personal goals.

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About this test

Premarital programs like PREPARE/ENRICH and the research of John Gottman point to the same areas: how couples talk, fight, handle money, deal with families, and agree on the future. This quiz was written for cv.cm around those five areas.

Take it separately with your partner and compare. The area where your scores differ most is the best topic for your next long conversation.

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FAQ

Can a quiz tell me if I should get married?

No. It highlights areas worth talking about. The decision depends on many things a quiz cannot see.

Should my partner take it too?

Yes. Answer separately, then compare your area scores. Differences are more useful than the total.

What if we score low?

A low score is a list of topics, not a verdict. Many couples work through them with honest talks or premarital counseling.

Can married couples use it?

Yes. The same five areas matter at every stage of a relationship.